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Physical attraction plays a big role in initial impressions, and there are things you can do to become more physically attractive to women. In this article, I’m going over six physical traits that make you more physically irresistible to women, using the exact words from my recent video. These are actionable tips you can start working on, regardless of the genetic cards you’ve been dealt. Let’s get started!

1. Being in Shape

So getting started with the physical traits that make you more attractive and irresistible to women number one we have being in shape so this one is kind of a no-brainer i try to tell you guys all the time how important it is to take care of your body eat good food go to the gym you don’t need to look like you’re about to compete in a bodybuilding competition or about to walk on the stage for a show but i do think it’s important to take good care of your body and be physically fit so i’m not saying that you need to be chiseled or have abs like a greek god but you need to be at least working out and going to the gym and trying to be in good shape.

• Why It Matters: I was actually taking a look at a couple different studies and chest and arms ranked the highest in every single study that was done of importance to women i think it’s because it makes you feel safe and secure around someone who is just naturally bigger than you for the most part.
• How to Do It:
  • Go to the gym regularly and focus on exercises for chest and arms.
  • Eat good food to support your fitness goals.
  • Stay consistent with working out to show you’re trying to be in good shape.

2. Facial Hair

Next on my list number two is facial hair so if you haven’t seen it already i did an entire video asking girls to react to different facial hair styles and all of them mostly preferred a guy with a little bit of facial hair over someone who you know had a really long beard or someone who was just straight up clean shaven i think the five o’clock shadow and a little bit of stubble going on is what girls normally like the most facial hair in general can just make you look a little bit more mature and distinguished and it gives off a very masculine vibe which i think is why girls like it so much.

• Why It Matters: The five o’clock shadow and the stubble is my personal favorite so i can see why other girls like it as well i will also say a little bit of stubble or the five o’clock shadow is the perfect option for you guys that maybe can’t grow facial hair that well because it’s pretty close to the skin and doesn’t require a lot of growth.
• How to Do It:
  • Keep facial hair trimmed to a five o’clock shadow or light stubble.
  • Use a trimmer to maintain a tidy appearance.
  • Moisturize the skin beneath to keep it healthy.

3. Dressing Well

Number three on my list is dressing well so putting your best foot forward showing up for yourself and dressing very nice just shows that you value yourself and you’re putting in the effort dressing well can also make you appear like you have your life together a little bit which let’s be honest girls like.

• Why It Matters: I also want to be really honest here and say that for a lot of women especially modern women not sure if you want to attract these type of girls but wealth success and status are very big initial attractors for these types of women so if you’re someone that is looking for a hookup or you’re someone that’s just looking to date around these are going to be things that you’re really going to want to pay attention to because this is what is going to get these girls attention.
• How to Do It:
  • Choose clothes that show you’re putting in the effort and value yourself.
  • Dress like the best version of yourself, not someone you’re not.
  • Keep outfits clean and well-fitted to make a good first impression.

4. Nice Hair

Number four nice hair so this one’s a little bit tricky because i know this is an area where it’s kind of out of your control to a certain extent but i think there are things that you can do to make your hairstyle look better on you picking a hairstyle that works well with your face shape your bone structure the thickness of your hair if you’re someone with very thin hair growing it out is probably not the best option for you and you’d want to keep it a little bit shorter to make it look more full.

• Why It Matters: I was also reading this thing online that was very interesting and it was about how girls typically prefer someone with darker hair and then it made me think about all the people i’ve ever dated in the past and every single one of them has dark hair and i don’t know if that’s a coincidence or if it’s a little ironic but i was sitting there like oh my gosh wow this study is 100 accurate for me which is just interesting to think about so if you have dark hair you’re a step above the rest i guess.
• How to Do It:
  • Pick a hairstyle that suits your face shape and hair thickness.
  • Keep hair clean, healthy, and trimmed regularly.
  • If you’re bald, rock a close crop or clean shave with confidence.

5. Taller Than Her

Number five is a little bit of a bummer and some of you guys are going to be upset and i get it but it’s you’re taller than her and i know this one is totally out of our control we cannot really control how tall we are.

• Why It Matters: Most women not all women i know some women that are dating guys that are shorter than them are married to guys that are shorter than them and they don’t care at all because the guy has confidence and at the end of the day that overrules everything else in my opinion but i think most girls me included are attracted to guys that are taller than them at least.
• How to Do It:
  • Stand tall with good posture to maximize your presence.
  • Focus on other traits like fitness and grooming to boost appeal.
  • Be confident—girls who like you won’t care as much about height.

6. Good Grooming Habits

Number six and last on my list is good grooming habits and the reason why this stands out so much nowadays is because there’s so many guys that are simply not doing these things and as you guys know it’s all about the details and sometimes the little things make the biggest difference and often girls notice details and the little things a lot more than guys do.

• Why It Matters: Having a skincare routine is a big one using sunscreen is a good one protecting the wrinkles and age spots just really taking care of your face and the skin on your body as well i see so many guys who have dry flaky skin or who are not using moisturizer and a lot of it could just be solved with a nice skincare routine so there’s no excuse here guys.
• How to Do It:
  • Use a skincare routine with cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen.
  • Keep nails trimmed, hands clean, and facial hair tidy.
  • Brush twice daily, floss, and use whitening toothpaste for a nice white smile.

Looks Aren’t Everything

I also wanted to reiterate that looks are not everything and physical attraction alone is not enough to sustain a relationship physical attraction should not be the sole focus in building a connection or intimacy with a person but i do think it does play a big role in initial attraction. All right guys that is all i have for six physical traits that make you irresistible to women of course like i said there’s so much more to being attracted to someone than just the physical aspects but i think for initial attraction for getting someone’s attention for just being physically attractive these things all play a big role.

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

1. Do looks matter more than personality for attracting women?

For me to sit here and say that looks don’t matter would be me lying to you i also wanted to reiterate that looks are not everything and physical attraction alone is not enough to sustain a relationship physical attraction should not be the sole focus in building a connection or intimacy with a person but i do think it does play a big role in initial attraction.

2. Can I be attractive if I’m not tall?

I know this one is totally out of our control we cannot really control how tall we are. Most women not all women i know some women that are dating guys that are shorter than them are married to guys that are shorter than them and they don’t care at all because the guy has confidence and at the end of the day that overrules everything else in my opinion.

3. What’s the best facial hair style for attracting women?

I think the five o’clock shadow and a little bit of stubble going on is what girls normally like the most facial hair in general can just make you look a little bit more mature and distinguished and it gives off a very masculine vibe which i think is why girls like it so much.

4. How do I dress well without changing who I am?

I don’t want you guys to be you know trying to be someone that you’re not or dressing like a totally different person in order to attract a certain type of girl your true colors are always going to come out eventually and you should want to be with someone that wants to be with the real you i’m just saying dressed as the best version of yourself and show that you put in a little bit of effort.

5. Why does a skincare routine matter for attraction?

Having a skincare routine is a big one using sunscreen is a good one protecting the wrinkles and age spots just really taking care of your face and the skin on your body as well i see so many guys who have dry flaky skin or who are not using moisturizer and a lot of it could just be solved with a nice skincare routine so there’s no excuse here guys.

6. Why is a nice smile important for attraction?

I have to say this white teeth and taking care of your teeth and having a nice white smile is going to look better just initial attraction right off the bat than someone who has dark yellow teeth okay if you’re a smoker that has dark yellow teeth your breath stinks your smile is not going to be as attractive as someone who doesn’t smoke takes care of his teeth and maybe whitens them.

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There are some things that you can do regardless of the cards that you’ve been given that will make you more physically attractive there’s things that are easy to change it might take a little bit more work to change on some of these but they’re definitely doable and there’s no excuse as to why you aren’t getting the results that you want if you do these things. Start today, be yourself, and let these traits help you make a great first impression!

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